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Monday, December 28, 2015

Christmas!!!

Merry Christmas!!  Again!!

I told most of you Merry Christmas over Skype but for those who weren't there Merry Christmas!

This week was great!  And the obvious highlight was Christmas!  So I'm going to mostly talk about what we did for Christmas Eve and Christmas.

Christmas Eve!  We worked normally that day until about 8:00 when we went to an awesome recent convert )her name is Llanina) to have Christmas dinner.  The only problem was that there were only two grown women in the house so we couldn't enter without another man or another woman, and they were planning on having a friend over but the friend canceled at the last minute.  So we couldn't go inside, but they were awesome and brought the table and chairs outside and we ate Christmas dinner in the street!  It was actually really cool, I thought it was awesome that they cared that much about getting us dinner.  Then we got back the house and celebrated by making oreo shakes!  They were delicious, and the first shakes I've had since I've gotten to the mission since they don't really exist here.  My Argentian comp was a huge fan, and has since told everyone we've met about this weird delicious gringo drink that has ice cream and cookies in it.  We're actually going to make it tonight in a FHE with the Wyco family.  Anyway, I digress.  We made shakes, drank coke, ate potato chips, told stories in Spanish, it was a great night.

Christmas!  Our district meeting was moved from Wednesday to Friday in order to have it on Christmas morning, so our whole zone got together in the chapel in Santa Cruz and made pancakes before the meeting.  That was probably my second favorite part of the whole day, because the zone here is awesome and we had a lot of fun.  After the meeting I got to sing songs from Les Miserables with Elder Anuarve (one of our favorite pass-times while we were in Conti) while we were cleaning dishes, which was also a ton of fun.  The meeting was great too, the zone leaders talked about faith and in our district class we read the christmas story from Luke.  Then Presidente Warne and Hermana Warne came and gave us a little spiritual Christmas thought too, which was great.  After that we went to the house that we skyped at to have lunch and email you guys about the time we would be skyping.  After lunch we ran over to visit Janet real quick before skyping, and I haven't told you her story yet!  So I will now.

So Janet is an investigator of ours who owns a little store in a neighborhood in our sector.  Her son was baptized about a year ago, and recently left on a mission in Bolivia.  She's not married to her husband (husband? partner? not sure what to say in this case) still, and she hasn't ever listened to the missionaries or attended church.  We've been passing by her every now and then to talk and try and start teaching her, and she invited us to come when her son skyped for Christmas (Elder Leguizamón knew him before he left.)  So we went to skype with her son right after lunch, and the son was awesome and frank with his mother and told her that she needed to get married and get baptized, that she needed to listen to the missionaries and do what they say.  Then Elder Leguizamón asked him to bear his testimony of the gospel and baptism, and he bore an incredible testimony of the gospel and again testified of the importance of her getting baptized.  I could tell it made a huge difference in her.  At the end he challenged her to pray about the church and ask God if it's true.  What he said was perfect, and I was really excited that it might have made a change.

After that we skyped!  Easily made my month, or even my year.  It was amazing, thanks for being awesome, family!

After skyping we passed by the Wyco family to say Merry Christmas and then we headed for the house.  So it was a great day!

THEN the next day we passed by Janet again, and she said that she prayed like her son told her to and felt something really strong.  She told us that she wasn't expecting to feel anything, but she did, and that she knows the church is true.  I was blown away!  Best Christmas ever!  I didn't even know what to say because nothing like that has happened in my mission yet, then Elder Leguizamón said ''So what are you willing to do now?''  To which she replied, ''Wait for my son to get home to be baptized.''  Another good example that having a baptism is never easy, you've really gotta fight for it!  We talked to her about the blessings of baptism and also told her that it'd be cooler if she could get sealed to her son when he got home and that her son would be really happy to find out that she was baptized but she still felt like she wanted to wait for him.  She did, however, commit to being taught and to go to church this Sunday.  So that was an amazing miracle of the week!  Even though she's a little stubborn and doesn't want to get baptized now, she will one day, and that's amazing!  I think that when she has the lessons and goes to church she'll start feeling the desire to get baptized as soon as possible, but if not I know she'll get baptized so I'm very greatful I got to witness the first stages of her conversion.

So that was my week!  The rest of the week we spent finding past investigators from the area book trying to find more people to teach and also a lot of contacting.  As well as visiting our recent converts and strengthening them.  So it was a great week!  I love you all!  Sorry this letter was a little shorter, I spent a lot of time reading letters today.  But have a great week!  The Church is True!  And great!

Love
Elder Fox

Wednesday, December 23, 2015

Paniahue

Hey guys!!  How're you doin?!  That's good.

Anyway, I'm in Paniahue!  It was a little hard leaving Elder Hadlock and all the people that I know and love in Conti, but now I'm feeling great here and it's great!  

First, my comp!  As you know, his name is Elder Leguizamón and he's from Argentina, and he's awesome!  He knows less English than any Latino I've met so far in the mission, especially with his time, but honestly I actually really enjoy the challenge!  I can't express everything I want to in the exact way that I would do it in English but normally I can say anything I want to and tell any story with ease, so it's been great!  We've been getting to know each other pretty well.  He found the motivation to learn English recently though, because he's going to be living in Utah after his mission, so I've been helping him learn which has been a lot of fun.  He's actually learned super quickly, and has taken a lot of initiative.  He has about 18 months in the mission, and was previously a zone leader in Talca.  He was released from being zone leader in an emergency change a little while back (pretty sure I told you about it) when all 4 Talca zone leaders were taken out and made co-comps.  I've always wondered why that happened, since all four of those zone leaders were amazing missionaries and leaders, and Elder Leguizamón told me the story this week and apparently it was a long complicated mess full of a lot of misunderstandings.  From what I've seen of him so far, he's an absoultely amazing missionary who is exactly obedient and I have a ton to learn from him.  He's famous for being an amazing contacter and teacher, so I'm super excited to be with him.  He has a lot of motivation and he works really hard, I love his attitude.  He told me that it was a little disappointing being emergency changed out of being zone leader, but that what's important is that you work as hard as you can wherever you are placed.  He's a great guy.

We live in a house in Santa Cruz with the Santa Cruz zone leaders, so I'm essentially living with 3 zone leaders!  It's the greatest, I love the constant atmosphere of hard work and obedience.  Our sector includes a little bit of Santa Cruz and all of Paniahue, which is a tiny little city with a tiny little branch of about 20 members.  It takes about 30 minutes to walk to Paniahue, so my days of walking ridiculous distances to get to church and our proselyting areas aren't over!  The only downside is the heat, the heat is easily worse than anything I've experienced in Utah, so those weather scientist people who say that Rancagua is cooler than Utah in the summer are definitely smoking something.  But I'm getting used to it!  The only hard thing is that the heat doesn't improve when we get to the house, nor at night when we sleep.  But I'm quickly getting used to things.

So that's Paniahue and my comp!  Like I said last week, we don't have a lot of people, which is pretty characteristic for this zone.  We do have a family of recent converts who are awesome but definitely need a lot of strengthening right now, so we've been working a lot with them helping them rid their doubts.  They're called the fma. Wyco (I think that's how it's spelled...)  The husband was an Adventist preacher when he was converted, and he's very educated in the bible unlike most people down here.  He probably knows the bible better than I do, admittedly.  He has a wife who seems to me to have a really strong testimony of the gospel, and also two daughters, one who's in primary and the other young womens.  They're an awesome family, but the husband has a lot of doubts still that we're helping him to resolve.  Some of his questions are really hard, so it gives me something good to study for.

I've met another family of potential investigators that I think have a lot of promise, they seem to trust a lot in us right now and the Dad is a less active member.  We haven't taught them yet, but we hope to this week.  The two kids have taken a lot of fascination in English and my piano playing ability, and want me two teach them both!  We're actually thinking of starting an English class and a piano class for investigators and just the population in general to find investigators (classes here in Chile work really well for finding people) so we'll probably start that next week!

So story time!!  This story involves a huge thank-you I owe to Sister Gouls and my wonderful mother.

So this branch has a deep distrust of North Americans.  That's a little bit of a problem for me, seeing I'm North American.  The past President used this sector as a ''punishment'' sector for missionaries who were disobedient or didn't do anything, and as a result the branch has an understandable distrust of missionaries, especially gringos.  Ever since I heard this, I've been thinking about ways to fix this problem so I can help strengthen the branch.  The branch definitely needs to be strengthened right now, but there's nothing I can do to help them until they trust me.  God helped me to fix our relationship with the Constitución Ward, so I had no reason to disbelieve that he wouldn't help me with this branch.  Elder Leguizamón and I have been visiting the members and delivering spiritual messages to all of them and asking what we can do to help them out, and every member that I've met so far has been an amazing person so it hasn't been hard at all to love them very genuinely and show that love.  So that was a good start.  But then they figured out that I play piano, and that really made the difference.

When I told Elder Leguizampón that I play piano he got super excited, saying that this sector really needed someone to play the piano in order to teach our investigators who want to learn and also to play for the branch.  As soon as we got to the house he called the Primary President and told her that I could play for the primary program that Sunday, but that she'd have to give us the songs so that I could practice them beforehand.  We had to go to the church a few mornings because there were 7 songs that I had to learn for the meeting Sunday morning, but I eventually got them all down.

Then Sunday came!  Normally branches and wards give time to new missionaries who come in to share their testimonies and present themselves, and I was really counting on this opportunity to start building trust with the branch, because when someone speaks and testifies with the Spirit it's hard to deny that they're a servant of the Lord.  But they didn't give me that time.  Shoot.  I played the opening song though and the branch seemed surprised that there was real piano music (it's probably been a while.)  I played well for all of the songs of the primary program too, and I hoped that that would build my trust with the members.  Then the primary President got up at the end of the meeting to speak.  She hadn't really said much to me in the way of thanks or appreciation, but I didn't really think anything of it.  But what she said in her talk really surprised me.  She got up and at the end of the talk she said  ''I know that the Mission President is a very inspired man and receives revelation, and I know that it's hard losing Elder Bernard (He's a Mexican from my group that they really loved) right before Christmas, but before we were practicing these primary songs with just the CD's.  Then President sent us this angel right before the program to play the piano for us, and I am so incredibly greatful that God sent us Elder Fox to help us out.''

Wow.  I was stunned.  President, funny enough, was actually there at the sacrament meeting and shortly after her talk he got up and said.  ''I actually forgot that Elder Fox played the piano, to be honest, and I had no idea about your situation.  So that's evidence for you all, that God really does direct this work and that Elder Fox is supposed to be here with you.''

That was better than just about anything I could've hoped to happen ever.  The members warmed up to me immediately.  Every single one of them came up to me after and told me that I play the piano very beautifully and that it's such a different spirit having real piano music in the meeting.

So here's a thanks to my mother!  She understood much better than I how vitally important my piano playing abilities would become in my mission.  It turned out to be my entrance into the hearts of everybody in this little branch.

So skype!  Count on 6:00 Chilean time, not sure what that is over there with daylight savings and all that.  If anything is amiss email me, I´'ll check my email before.

I love you all!  Have a great week!

Love,
Elder Fox

Monday, December 14, 2015

What the Fweak Just Happened -- Part 2

Hey all!

This week was incredible and unbelievably wonderful and emotional and just overall nuts!  So I decided to make it a continuation of the last letter, hence the subject.  It was a great week though, easily one of the best I've ever had.  Then it got a little sad on me towards the end.

We found a lot of new investigators this week.  That's what made it such a great week.  The first family we found, we found when we were walking up some stairs to a part of Conti we walk to a lot.  I noticed this dirt path off the stairs that I had never noticed before, and we decided to follow it to this little town kinda thing that was on the side of the mountain and didn't have any roads or anything, just a bunch of little chilean houses in the field.  We decided to contact there, and the first house that we went to let us in right away.  It was an awesome young little family that's god-fearing but they don't have a religion.  They were a super nice family, and even though they didn't have much they gave us juice and olives to snack on.

Then I ate an octopus!

2 actually.

They had this bucket chuck full of octopi, which I found rather odd at first, then the man (his name is Marcelo) put a bunch of the octopi in a strainer and started frying them.  I had never heard of anyone eating octopi before, and I was hoping he wouldn't offer us any because I was a little concerned about how they would taste.  But sure enough, he did, and so after taking pictures of us holding the little octopi (they shrink a lot when you fry them) we ate them, and they weren't too bad!  They were actually pretty good, so I took another!  The only weird thing for me was sticking something with eight legs in my mouth period, especially all in one bite.  We left them with a pamphlet that day and came back to discover that they had actually read the pamphlet, as a family!  And really thought about it and understood it!  Eso nunca pasa!!  They are an amazing family.  We taught them lesson 1 that night and it went really well.  They have a lot of potencial and would progress easily.  Which I was excited for.

We also found a guy named Luís, who is super friendly and wants to listen to our message.  When he let us in he told us how much he respects us and what we do and wants to hear what we have to teach him, and sadly that night we weren't able to get more than a little spiritual thought in, but we were still super excited about it because he's a great guy!  He lives up on the hill and has a very nice house for Chile, I forgot what he does for work unfortunately.

We found Jesús again!!  I know that sounds weird, but that's true.  We found Jesús about 3 months ago (I was in my first change still) and he was absolutely golden.  He let us right in and we taught the first lesson and put a fecha with him, all in the first time that we met him!  It was amazing and he was super promising, then he moved to Santiago.  And that was depressing.  But when we were on our way back from the octopus family we found him again!  Apparently he had returned and he's going to be here for a while!  We didn't get to teach him again which was sad, but we were hopeful that I'd at least be able to with my new comp next change.

And then the changes came, and the changes were weird.

We got the call on Saturday night, and our zone leader told us that Elder Hadlock would be going to Panamericana in Talca (he's staying in Talca lucky sucker) and that he would be companions with Elder Castro, a Mexicano who came in my group who I get along with really well, so I was excited for him, and obviously knew that he'd be going.  He's been in Conti for a super long time, at least for this mission.  Then they told me that I'd be going to a branch in Paniahue in the Santa Cruz zone, and that I'd be companions with Elder Leguizamón from Argentina.  Then they said that they'd be closing our sector.  For those of you who don't know what that means, it means that nobody is going to replace Elder Hadlock and I when we leave, so there'll be only 4 missionaries here instead of 6.  I was told that there wasn't much of a possibility that they'd close our sector, and because we were having good success lately I didn't think there'd be a whitewash either, so I was a little shocked.  Apparently, two missionaries had to go home due to injury lately so there weren't sufficient to keep 6 missionaries in Conti.

But there is good news!  We figured out things really quick and we're going to have the Hermanas in Conti take over these great people that we found recently, so with luck they will all still continue to progress!  Just a little sad I won't be here to see it.

And more good news!  I've always wanted to be in the more rural parts of the mission and participate in the tiny little branches and that's exactly what Santa Cruz is!  It'll be all large fields of delicious fruit and I'll get to take more responsibility being in a tiny little branch in Santa Cruz.  That's where Elder Hadlock was when he nourished the branch in perelillo back to health after the branch president was excommunicated.  Apparently the fruit is absolutely amazing there and really cheap and a lot of people give you free fruit.  So I'm excited for that!  The only downside is that it'll be very very hot and there aren't a whole lot of people there to teach.  It'll be a lot more service and a lot less teaching, but I love service so that's okay!

Yesterday and today are full of sad goodbyes, we're leaving for Talca at 6:00 this afternoon.  I'm going to miss Conti a ton too, there is very little chance that I'll ever get to see it again in my mission.  Conti sent us off with a bang though, with the 3 most beautiful sunsets I've ever seen in my life, 3 nights in a row.  Pictures to follow.  When the second one happened Elder Hadlock and I were on the side of a mountain watching the waves roll in to the beach and viewing the giant Piedra de la Iglesia and the other giant ocean cliffs from above, so that also added to the amazingness of that moment.  It was the most beautiful place I've ever been in my life.  Pictures to follow.

The saddest goodbye's for sure were that of Megan the Gringa, La'Cote and her family, and, surprisingly, the bishop.  Last night we went to the house of La'Cote and her family to say goodbye, and it was a really special experience.  Usually when elders leave that family likes to send us off with a huge party that's a liiiiiittle too much for missionaries, but last night we just ate once while the whole family went around and told us about how much of a difference we've made in their lives.  I almost cried.  It just goes to show you that baptisms aren't any indication of success.  They said that they'd miss us a lot, and they want us to invite them to our weddings, which I found a little odd but hey it works.

So the bishop.  I told you guys eariler that our relationship with the bishop was really rocky, and I really shouldn't of told you that.  I really regret it, that was really stupid.  I should never complain about members in my group emails, that week was just particularly frustrating.  Since then, our relationship has been getting better and better.  I've been noticing little things all the time that have been indicating to me that he trusts us more, but I've never really thought that he actually really liked us until last night.  We passed by his house to say goodbye and take some pictures, and he and his wife took at least 2 dozen pictures of Elder Hadlock and I.  At the end, he told us that it was a huge privilege knowing us, and that he would miss us a lot.  He thanked us a lot for everything we'd done for him, his family, and the ward.  His openness and sincerity really threw me off, and I nearly started crying.  I told him that I'd be back, that one day I'd come back with my wife.  He told me that that's what he wants to hear, and that when I come back I'll have a place to stay in his house.  He said he really looks forward to when we'll be able to see each other again.  At the very end before we left he told us that he knew why we had to go, but that he really didn't want us to.  It was very touching, and I'm really greatful for my friendship with him.

Well, it was a long crazy ride here in Conti.  I will miss these people and this place like crazy.  I love everybody in this ward and all our friends here more than I can possibly express, and that's what's so great about serving a mission.  I really love them, and it hurts leaving them, but I know that I'm going to love everybody in my next little branch just as much, and that's the great thing.  Conti was a little bit of a baptism of fire for me, but I have always loved the little city, and I know that one day I'll be back.  I will never forget my experiences here and how this place and these people have forever changed my life.  I like to think that the 3 of us have made a difference here in Conti, as well.

I love you all, have a great week!  The church is true!

Love
Elder Fox

Thursday, December 10, 2015

What the fweak just happened?

I hope you all understand the Kid History reference.

This is the subject of the email because this week was just... really... weird.  It was amazing, and awesome, and weird, and hard, all at the same time!!  So it does beg the question:  ¿Qué pasó?

But overall, it was actually one of the best weeks of my mission thus far, so I'm not gunna complain!

Monday we found someone and put a fecha!  It was a great triumph after over a month of our area being completely dry.  I had passed by him a very long time ago accidentely when I was looking for a past investigator and went to the wrong house.  He said that he wanted to know about our church and to come back, so we passed by Monday and we taught him the first lesson and put a fecha!  His name is Eduardo, and he's 86 years old.  For the U.S. that's normal, but for Chile that's absolutely incredible.  He has an awesome little house on the edge of a seaside cliff.  He's been Catholic all of his life, so that's his doubt, but he seemed to like the lesson and he said that he'd read the Book of Mormon and go to church!

Tuesday I went to Talca to go on divisions with the Elders in our district there again.  This time I was with Elder Lloyd, who went to Lone Peak but graduated the year ahead of me.  We had a good day, but not much happened.  Meanwhile in Conti Elder Hadlock and Elder Villavicencio found a family!  A flippin family!!  And he put two fechas right there, but there are some more kids in the family and the mom is a less active member.  It's really hard to find good families to teach here, so when I got the call I was really happy.  After over 3 months of not much at all we suddenly got a lot in a matter of days, I was stunned!  Also, Megan the gringa had read Alma 32 and absolutely loved it.  She loves the Book of Mormon apparently, but she doesn't believe that Joseph Smith was a prophet yet.  I'm not really sure how that works, but she's progressing really well!  She went to church again as well.

Fun statistic time:  In this mission about 20% or one fifth of the people who accept a baptismal fecha end up actually getting baptized.  Just thought you might like to know.

I stayed overnight in Talca because Wednesday was the Christmas activity for our half of the mission!  We combined 4 zones so I got to see Elder Waters and the other Hermana Porter again!  The activity was a lot of fun, we had a devotional, played sports, ate a huge lunch and then watched a slideshow of all the missionaries' best photos from the year.  That night Elder Hadlock and I stayed in Talca and worked with Elder Villavicencio and Elder Lloyd for the night.  We went to Jessica's house again and watched Meet the Mormons.  It was awesome, we talked to them and Jessica said that she prayed about the Book of Mormon and about Joseph Smith and said that she got a very peaceful feeling and that she knew that it was true.  I was stunned, she was golden!  I was feeling super grateful that I was able to participate in her conversion process, because she'd likely be the best investigator that I'd meet on my mission.  I was very impressed with her and her dedication and her sensitivity to the Spirit.  That night Elder Hadlock and I stayed the night in Talca and us and all the Elders in the apartment put apartments in the main room and had a giant sleepover.  It was awesome.  We were super happy for the other Elders because they had a baptism coming up, and the had Jessica and her son that were fantastic investigators, and one more really promising investigator with a fecha.

That next day we went to zone training and went back to Conti, and that's where weird things started happening.

We got a call from Elder Villavicencio and he told us that they discovered that Jessica was a member that had been ex-communicated, and she'd been wanting to be baptized again but wanted to keep this information from the elders so had been pretending to be a real investigator.  The news shocked me, I'm not going to lie.  It shocked me a lot.  But, I realized that if she goes through the long process ahead of her and ends up being re-baptized, that'd still be incredible, and I would have still helped in that process.  Also, her son hadn't ever heard of the church before, and the elders are now working on getting him baptized.  The coolest thing about that though, is that he's saying that he wants to serve a mission.  And that is flipping fantastic.  So, even though the news was shocking, I'm still very grateful that I have been able to be a part of their big life changes.

Elder Villavicencio called us the next day and told us that their other fechas fell too for other odd reasons, those poor elders had a really hard week.

Also, Elder Hadlock and I returned to the family that they found on Tuesday and they are very very kind people.  I love them to death.  I forgot their names, BUT I'll tell you them as soon as I remember.  The problem is, we found out that they didn't understand very clearly when Elder Villavicencio put the baptismal date with them on Tuesday.  We brought it up again to confirm it, and they told us that they weren't going to get baptized because they had been baptized in the Catholic church and didn't think it was necessary to do it again.  We explained the restoration and the importance of the preisthood authority again, but they still held firm in their conviction that they didn't need to get baptized again.  So they lost their fechas, but we're not giving up!  If they truly understand the restoration they'll be ready and willing, and they're an amazing family. 

That's about all!  But I have some funny (and weird) stories to share that contribute to the weirdness of the week.  And then my awesome spiritual moment for the week!

So Elder Hadlock and I had a really unfortunate encounter with an army of pre-teen girls.  We were contacting and passed this party that was going on outside with at least 50 pre-teen girls, but four of them were on the curb close to where we were walking.  When we passed them Elder Hadlock just said ''Hey do you want something?'' and handed them all little ''Ha nacido un Salvador'' cards that we got at the Christmas activity to hand out when the storm started.  Suddenly EVERY pre-teen wanted the card.  All of them.  In seconds we were surrounded on all sides by 12-year-olds and we gave them all cards.  But that's not where it ended, they found out that we were from the states and that we spoke English, and then they were all asking us every kind of question you can think of.  All of them.  At the same time.  What's your name?  What does this thing in English mean?  How do you say this thing in English?  Where are you from?  What do you do here?  How long have you been here?  What does this english swear word mean in Spanish?  Why do you have dirt on your butt?  Meanwhile they were all taking pictures and videos and voice recordings and selfies to put on social media after, which I thought probably wasn't the best thing for the public view of the people on missionaries, but we couldn't escape!  That's when Megan the gringa came because she lives really close and her brother told her about the commotion going on outside with her gringo friends.  She came to us and we spoke english to each other which definitely didn't help the situation.  She suggested that we just run, but I didn't want an army of little girls chasing after us in the streets for everybody to see so I thought better of it.  We ended up slipping out while enough of them were just focused on Megan the gringa and snuck away.

Sorry Megan, it had to be done.

We also had a 40-year old woman hit on us reeeeeally hard core, but I don't have a lot of time so I'm not going to go into it.  It kind of freaked me out, to be honest.

Oh, by the way, if it was Mom's wish that I play the piano on my mission, she definitely got her wish.  I played every day in the CCM for opening hymn.  Day 1 in the field in my interview with President he informed me that I'd be playing for the newbie meeting in 10 minutes.  Wasn't a lot of time to prepare.  Then, I accidentaly became the official ward choir accompanist because the ward pianist is the conductor of the choir.  So I essentially have to learn whatever songs they want to sing as quickly as humanly possible because we don't have a lot of time to waste sitting in the church for me to practice.  Also, since I played for the ward choir it got out that I play piano and now people call me and ask me to play for whatever activity or that they're going to have, and usually give me about a days notice so we have to run to the church for a half an hour so I can practice.  A lot of piano.  I'm getting a lot better at learning hymns quickly.

Spiritual moment!  There were lots, but this week Elder Hadlock and I did a study of the atonement in our companionshiop study and both ended up tears.  A lot of tears.  I felt like Hermanas, but it was a really amazing study.  He read a poem about missionary work and the atonement and we both just lost it.  I learned a lot though, and I felt the spirit very strongly, and gained an appreciation for the atonement that I've never had before.  It was an amazing experience.  Also, the other night I was feeling really down on myself and Elder Hadlock had the perfect things that I needed to hear and shared the story of him and how he's felt his whole mission up until that point and that was also an amazing.  Maybe I'll be able to share both stories in more detail when we skype because they were amazing and I can't really do it justice in this email.

So this week was kind of a rollercoaster of all kinds of emotions, but there were so many incredible things that happened this week, it made it an amazing week.  My gratitude for the atonment and my Savior goes beyond words, and I know that He loves us more than we can imagine.  I wish I had more time to share my feelings, but I don't.  Poop.  Hopefully next week will be a little less crazy so I can share what I'm feeling.

So that was my week of what the fweak just happened!  I love you all!  Have a great week!  You're in my prayers!

Love,
Elder Fox

Monday, November 30, 2015

The Vineyard

Hey all!  This week was awesome, in summary.  It's starting to get a little hot here and all the kids just got out of school, which makes the fact that Christmas is coming up soon seem verry verry odd.  Picture Christmas in the middle of summer vacation... weird right?  Anyway, moving on.

Quote of the week: ''YOU can't smack my conservative face!!!''
     - Elder Hadlock
 
He was a little upset to discover that I took a conservative/liberal test in school and only fell 2 points on the conservative side.

So Thanksgiving!  Was pretty disappointing.  Not gunna lie.  But it's okay because we're going to celebrate it late next week!  Elder Hadlock and I had this whole thing set up with the other missionaries where we were going to have thanksgiving at our correlation meeting on Thursday, where every companionship would bring something delicious (not necesarilly normal thanksgiving food, but still delicious) to correlation and we'd all feast.  Then Elder Hadlock and I filled out our teaching record for the week... and realized that we had only taught one lesson the whole week.  Which means that it would've been really irresponsible to waste an hour and a half at correlation when we could just give him our teaching record and talk to him about the person for 2 minutes and then go and work to try to find more people.  SO we skipped correlation and went and contacted for the rest of the night.  Then I was planning on buying ice cream on the way home so we could still have something, but the store by our apartment had absolutely no ice cream.  So that was thanksgiving, but just because we worked really well and hard that day it was an amazing day, which I was grateful for.  And Thanksgiving is much more than the food.

So remember Jessica and her son?  Not sure if I ever said her name, but she was the girl I taught when I went on divisions in Talca and had the best lesson I've ever had with anyone.  I ended up sharing my own conversion story and testimony and it brought the Spirit very strong and I could tell that she felt it.  The Elders were teaching her before and she had a fecha but it fell because she didn't go to church, but last Sunday she went to church for the first time, and this Sunday I saw them both at the stake conference in Talca!!  It was awesome.  Also in district class this week Elder Villavicencio came up to me and thanked me for my testimony in the lesson, he said that he felt the Spirit very strong and he thinks that that's what made the difference in their progression.  I think they'll actually be baptized!  And even though they're not my investigators, I think this experience really helped me.  I feel like I haven't really helped many people's conversion to Christ thus far, but with her and her son I know that through me the Lord was able to make a big difference, and that's a really awesome thing to know.  They have fechas again, and I think this time they'll get baptized on that day.

We also had a lesson with La Mamá that went really well.  We showed her and her less-active member son the video of the Restoration and then talked a little more about it and bore our testimonies about it.  Then we were on the subject of baptism and finding the truth through the Holy Ghost for a very long time, and I can tell that she's progressing really well.  When I met her, baptism wasn't even a possibility in her mind, and now she's honestly considering it.  I just hope that she starts to feel her answer soon, because I think that right now she's actually honestly searching for one.  I pray that she will have a strong spiritual experience.  It's cool to see how the Lord softens people's hearts.

We also got to visit Christian and Megan again this week, but not much happened in either visit.  We ended up talking to Megan about conspiracy theories (I have no idea how that topic came up) and we didn't have much time to talk to Christian, but he commited to talk to his boss about getting Sundays off work so we're super excited about that.

With the weather getting hotter service opportunities are picking up.  Last week Elder Hadlock and I spent 4 hours or so painting texturizer on a ceiling of this woman from the fields that just moved into this just-built apartment complex, so before there was nothing but concrete walls.  We were texturizing the ceiling while her and the Hermanas were putting wall-stuff on the walls.  I don't really know what the wall-stuff is called in English.  Elder Hadlock and I only had a normal paint-roller to texturize the ceiling however, so it's really fortunate that Chilean ceilings are closer to the ground.  It was still a high enough reach to be exhausting, however.  This week we painted the bishop's gate and fence, which took a solid 6 hours.  I love service, it's my favorite thing!

I found a cool potential investigator this week by being a dork!  It was pretty hilarious.  Because Conti has tons of extremely steep hills and people decide to build houses and apartment buildings on said hills, they often cover parts of the hill in concrete to prevent things from happening.  Elder Hadlock decided to climb up one of these instead of going around it when we were coming out of an apartment complex and about to go down the hill.  Because Elder Hadlock did it, I of course had to do it, so I started up it but I was actually having a hard time, despite all my climbing experience.  I spent about 5 minutes on the concrete slab because I HAD to do it to prove myself.  After 5 minutes, a man poked his head out of his window in the apartment building and said ''You can do it!!  You're spider-man!!'' I laughed and replied ''sii'po!''  After I finally climbed the concrete thing, he came out of his apartment and we started talking to him.  He's a really cool guy, so I hope that we can be able to teach him some time.  He passed us in his car the other day while we were contacting and he stuck his head out the window and yelled ''HEY SPIDER-MAN!!''  He's cool.

So this week I came to a cool realization by studying Jacob 5 really carefully.  In this mission there are areas that are notorious for not having any success.  At all.  There are also areas that are notorious for having a lot of success (relatively), like Talca and Rancagua.  Conti is notorious for having good success, not a exceptional, but pretty good success.  So with how dry everything has been for the last 3 months or so, it definitely begs the question ''What more could I have done?''  It's a sad question, and one that I kind of got sick of asking.  I realized a few weeks ago that as long as I'm trying my best God accepts my sacrifice, and I'm definitely more at peace with our lack of success, but the question inevitably comes to mind.  Then I read Jacob 5 and found something spectacular.  When the Lord of the vineyard goes to the vineyard and sees that the trees have brought forth corrupt fruit, He weeps, and says ''What more could I have done for my vineyard?''  This happens on three seperate occasions.

That really hit me hard.  The Lord, the one Being who has done everything and will do everything perfectly, the Being who knows the end from the beginning and knows that He has done absolutely everything to bring His children back to Him, weeps when His children reject the gospel.  Even though He knows the answer, He asks ''what more could I have done?''  After the third time He asks that in that chapter, (I think) He even says that He knows that He has done all that He could.  He knows the answer to His own question.

We ask that question a lot.  What more could I have done for my friend, family, sector, branch, ward, district, zone, stake, area, anything.  I think we can find good comfort that God, the one who has done everything He could without infringing our agency has wept over that friend, family, sector, branch, ward, district, zone, stake, or area, and that He has asked Himself the very same question.  Even though He already knows that He has done all He could.  And as long as we accept the will of Christ and do our best with love, we do everything that we possibly can too, and we should also know the answer to our own question.

So those are my thoughts of this week!  I love you all a lot, and I'm very grateful for all of you and all of your sacrifice.  I'm very, very blessed.  Talk to you all soon!

Love,
Elder Fox

Monday, November 23, 2015

Nisperos and Arepas

So sorry, all the Chileans call Constitución Conti for short, I've fallen into the habit and have never told you.  They're the same thing.

Also there is this Spanish word - fechas - that translates to dates, that all the missionaries use to mean ''baptismal dates.''  I've never actually said the word 'dates' or 'baptismal date' my entire mission except for in my emails, and it's long to type so for on I'll just use fechas.

So this week!  Was great!  I'm going to go ahead and launch into investigators first this time.

So we did divisions with the other elders in the district on Tuesday so I went to Talca and spent the night there.  But Elder Hadlock and Elder Lloyd (Elder Lloyd went to Lone Peak too!  Wooooot!) taught Megan the Gringa in the church, but I wasn't there so I don't really know how it went.  Our Mission Leader (who was also there) tells me that they didn't actually get to much of the lesson, which is disappointing, but at least she got her first lesson-ish!  She was in Concepción this weekend though so she wasn't able to make it to church, we haven't really talked to her since.  We're hoping to maaaybe have thanksgiving with her family this week because they're the only family here that might celebrate it.

We also taught La Mamá de Marcelo again last night, which was awesome.  By the way I found out her real name, and it's María Ramós.  We taught the first lesson, and it actually went very well.  Much better than we were expecting.  Her problem right now is that she's in a Christian group that saved her from a very very dark period of her life, and she's been friends with them for years and years.  Luckily, she understands the importance of finding the truth.  I asked her ''If you receive your answer and know that the Church is true, what would you do?''  And she replied that she'd get baptized.  That'd it hurt a lot to leave her Christian group, but that she'd do it.  That kind of conviction is extremely rare here in Chile, usually when I ask that question people reply with much more wishy-washy answers like ''I'd probably read the Book of Mormon more...'' but she gets it, which is really good.  I'm going to pray that she will recieve her answer and that we can have the Spirit more in our lessons.

So that's that!  Now for stories!!

So I had an awesome time in the divisions Tuesday.  I was with an Elder from my group named Elder Villavicencio, who's Ecuadorian and super fun to talk with.  Ecuadorians are a bit tricky to understand (points to Dad) but I didn't do too bad.  I could at least understand absolutely everything he said in the lessons, for some reason I have a much easier time understanding Spanish when we're talking about the gospel.  In that division though we had a lesson with a Mom and her 14 year old son that impacted me really strongly.  It was probably just about the best lesson I've ever been in, so I was extremely grateful for the opportunity to be there.  We taught lesson 1 and showed them the 20 minute Restoration movie, and then Elder Villavicencio invited them to act by reading the Book of Mormon and praying.  And then I shared my conversion experience and my testimony.  Usually when I try to share a personal experience or testify, something always happens.  A phone, a dog, a child, an earthquake, a tsunami, or something distracting enough always happens and it was starting to bug me.  But this time, miraculously, there was nothing.  As soon as I started speaking the room was completely silent, like you could hear a pin drop.  I shared how I gained my testimony, and promised them that they could recieve an answer too, and testified of the thruthfulness of the restored gospel.  The Spirit was stronger almost than I've ever felt it in my life.  And, for one of the first times in my mission, I could tell that they felt it too.  Many times in these lessons I feel the Spirit very strong and I can just see it bounce off the investigators like nothing and it's a little frustrating, like ''How can you not FEEL that it's AMAZING and HUUUUGE.''  But this time it wasn't like that, my words sunk into her heart, and I knew at the moment that she was going to be baptized.  I knew it.  We called the other Elders last night and they told us that the mom went to church, and the kid really wanted to go but couldn't because he was sick.  Even though they aren't my investigators, that was an amazing experience and I really hope that they make that commitment to get baptized.  And I hope that I'm still here when they do.  Cuz Ima go to it.  I think I really needed that, if nothing else than just a confidence booster that I have the capacity to teach and testify with the Spirit.

More stories!  So Chile has helped me develop an apetite.  They feed us waaaaay too much for lunch, so I have the capacity to eat like I've never had before.  It's amazing I'm still skinny, it's probably all the hills we're walking up in Conti.  We had tacos (the only tacos I've had since I got here) last Sunday and I ate 6.  They weren't little hard-shell ones, they were full-sized big pork tacos.  And I ate 6.  Also, I've been making a lot of french toast this week, and one night I ate 8 pieces of french toast, and easily felt like I could've eaten more.  It's like a super power, I don't know where it came from!

So I forgot to tell you about our p-day last week!  We borrowed bikes and helmets from La'Cote and we rode down the coast south to a port a few miles from Conti.  It was a lot of fun, and a super pretty ride.  I took pictures at the port that I'm going to send you all.  Today we played volleyball and tennis at the church with us 6 Conti missionaries.  We never get to go to the activities because they're 2 hours away in Talca, so we decided to do our own thing.  We talked to the bishop about it and he gave us the keys, so we played volleyball!  And it was awesome.  I also have a picture of that.  I also tried a cool new fruit today, they're called 'nisperos' here or something like that, but if you google it I'm not sure what would come up because Mexico has another fruit that they call 'nisperos' but it's different.  It's delicious, and I've never seen one before in my life.  There is a huge nispero tree by the church, and there are a bunch that grow on the church side of the fence, so I climbed the fence and threw down nisperos for the other missionaries to catch in bags (it kind of reminded me of a mario party mini-game.)  Then we washed them and ate them, and they are super delicious.  But I have no way to describe them because they are completely different than anything I've ever had ever.  It's like a perfect mix between a plum, a peach, and a nectarine.

Last night was also fantastic, an awesome family in the ward invited us over to make Columbian food with them because Elder Mendez is Columbian and the couple both served in the same mission in Columbia.  Funny enough they met and got married after both their missions.  They invited the 6 Conti Missionaries and we all made something called arepas.  It's like friend corn bread, and it's delicious.  It was a fun night.

So I heard that there's a movie with Sam and Luke that shows Sam's mission in Concepción much more, because the series on Mormon Channel doesn't show a whole lot of his mission.  So go watch it!  If nothing else at least the parts of Sam's mission because it's also my mission so that's cool.

Well that was my week, and it was great!  I look forward to another one.  Hopefully we'll get more time to contact this week and find a few new investigators.  But we're having a great time down here!  The Church is true!  I'm going to use my remaining time to send some pictures real quick.

Love,
Elder Fox

Monday, November 16, 2015

The Week of Happiness

Howdy all!  If you can guess from the subject of the email, I had a pretty good week.  Not much really happened, in fact most of the things that happened were kind of depressing, BUT I still felt amazing this week.  And it was very nice, and I'll get to why in a bit.  But first I'm going to start by answering a question I got from my Mom in her email.

SO a typical day in the mission.  I wake up every morning at 7:00 and make Elder Hadlock drag me out of bed so I don't skip doing my exercises.  I do exercises for a half an hour and then get ready for the day until 8:30 where personal study starts, which continues until 9:30 where comp study starts, then we go until 10:30 when we study the language until 11:00 and then we leave.  The mornings aren't an amazing time to contact or to teach lessons, so we usually utilize the mornings to put of flyers for our classes or use our records to find less-active or part-member families to teach, which so far hasn't done much.  We have lunch at 1:30 then with a member always, which continues until 3:00 where we have a half an hour of free (study) time in our house before we go out to work for the rest of the day at 3:30.  We then return to the house at 9:30 and plan and relax and go to bed at 11:00.

For the most part, the way we find investigators is using our area book to visit old investigators that stopped investigating, using the records to find part member families, but mostly just contacting (tracting.)  Elder Hadlock and I lately though, because of our large lack of people, have been utilizing a ton of other clever ideas to find people.  For one there's the English class, we're also starting to use a bunch of other ideas we've gotten from members who have served missions, and I'll tell you more about those next week.

I wish we spent more time trying to find people than we do, because we need people, but even though we don't have a lot of people we are still finding ourselves SOOO flippin busy and I don't even know how that happens.  Stuff like English classes, doing divisions, having correlation meeting, going to the ward choir (they need me for piano), passing by recent converts and other members that need some love and support, and a bunch of other things that don't come to mind.  There's also a ton of walking.  

So that's my normal day!  It's always a blast except for when it's not.

(but it usually is.)

So time for stories!!

Elder Hadlock and I dropped an egg off the roof this week.  It was way too much fun.  For the district class Elder Hadlock wanted to do something fun so he decided that we'd do an egg-drop where the people in the district had to prepare something to protect the egg, but Elder Hadlock would also drop one that was completely unprotected.  The egg represented somebody with a baptismal date, and the concrete represented baptism.  If you don't prepare your investigators with dates, when they get baptized they're going to crack, or possibly splatter all over.  But to practice for mine and Elder Hadlock's, we threw an egg with a plastic bag attached to it (to act like a parachute) off the top floor of our apartment building.  It didn't work, but it was a lot of fun.  One of the people in the building saw it drop and poked her head out the window as we were viewing the damage, she thought it was pretty funny.

SO this story needs background.  This change one of the Hermanas in Conti left, Hermana Prien.  So then came another Hermana named Hermana Porter (not the same one that was in my group in the CCM, an older one.)  She hasn't been here for very long, so I haven't talked to her much at all at this point.  NOW the story.  Elder Hadlock and I were playing sports with the young men and potential investigators that we invite to play with us this Wednesday when this adorable little girl from primary walks up to me (I'm just sitting on the side at the time.)  This is how the conversation goes:

Little Girl:  ''Do you like the new hermana?''
Me:  ''.... come again?''
Little Girl:  ''Do you like the new hermana?''
Me:  ''... who told you that I liked the new hermana?''
Little Girl:  (with a sly smile) ''... soooooomebody.''
Me:  ''Tell me!!''
Little Girl: ''Sooooooooomone.''
Me:  ''No, I don't like the new hermana, I don't even know the new hermana, and I kind of have somebody back in the states that I kind of really like yeah?''

At this point the little girl was walking away backwards pointing at her eyes and then at mine repeatedly kind of like ''Iiiiiii'm watching you Elder Fox, aaaaaalways watching.''  It was a really strange conversation, but it was adorable and hilarious so I decided to share it.  I'm pretty sure this is just a primary rumor going on, because I haven't conversed much with the new hermana outisde of English class and correlation meeting, and few members are there for either of those.  At first I was worried because this ward is notorious for rumors, but I'm pretty sure there's nothing to worry about.

Oh by the way, I got the Christmas Package.  I had fun setting up the little tree and the stocking and the nativity on my desk.  I'm keeping all the presents in the original box stored away in a closet for now though because we're stil a good ways off from Christmas, but if I don't get changed this next change I'll put the presents under the mini tree.  So thanks Mom! :D

Another thing, have y'all ever seen that Sam and Luke series that the church did?  It's that story of the two brothers who had a bad relationship, then 5 years later they did another interview with the brothers and it had all turned around.  Well apparently they kept following them throughout the rest of their lives and made a whole series about it, and I LOVE it.  It's so cool!!  Cuz you see their whole flippin lives!!  But the reason I tell you is that Sam served in Concepción Chile on his mission, and it shows what my mission is like very very well.  At that time the Concepción mission included Talca and Constitución, so it's rumored that Sam was actually in Conti at one point.  SO you should all go find it and watch it.  Also Luke's mission story really inspired me, like a lot.  That's actually one of the things that made me feel so great this week.  I won't go into details, but I just loved it.  It really shows the growth you go through in a mission.

NOW for investigators and things that happened there.  We taught Pedro and Rosa again this week, but it didn't turn out so great this time.  They started getting a little frustrated because they couldn't understand the Book of Mormon passage we left them (Moroni 10: 3-5) and were saying that they didn't understand the 'vosotros' and the 'os' and the '-éis' and all that, and were getting frustrated that it was ever written like that in the first place.  Apparently they'd never been exposed to the vosotros form of Spanish before, which I didn't know was something that ever happened.  The problem was that I didn't know how to explain why they translated the Book of Mormon using vosotros form.  I couldn't really come up with a good reason at all.  Then they both seemed to decide that they didn't really like the Book of Mormon and they're pretty sure that the Bible is the only book of scripture.  Woops.  I explained to them what I did last time about the importance of the Book of Mormon, but nothing absorbed.  Elder Hadlock and I are not sure if they're ready anymore, but we're definitely not ready to give up on them yet.

We had a lesson last night with two women that we found contacting that went pretty well.  We taught the first lesson, but the kids couldn't be controlled the entire time so they didn't absorb much of what was taught.  Their names are Karina and Fernanda, who are cousins.  They both have a little son, one is 3 and the other is 1.  So it was a lot of fun, buuuut not the best teaching environment.  The two women both have husbands but they're always working so we had to bring a member by to teach with us.  In the course of the lesson we also ended up giving 3 Priesthood blessings, which is always a great opportunity, but a little odd thing to do in the middle of a lesson.  The member offered them of us, whereas we would've waited for the end of the lesson, but it ended up working out alright in the end.

The real victory of the week was in Megan the Gringa.  Elder Hadlock and I managed to get the only copy of the Book of Mormon in English for her in the entire mission this week when the secretaries came to our district class.  Also, when we talked to her last week we invited her to our english class to help out with it, but she said that her family always travels to Concepción in the weekends.  This Saturday though, she came and helped us out.  Afterward we talked for a bit with her and before we all left we invited her to church.  She said she would as long as her mom didn't have anything else she wanted to do.  That next morning in Sacrament Meeting she came, and it was amazing.  That was the first investigator we've had in church since our baptism back in my first change.  It was a glorious moment.  It was a great meeting too, one of my favorite members got up and talked about the vision of the Tree of Life.  Megan stayed with us the 2nd hour too for the Gospel Principles class, which was luckily taught this week by our wonderful Misison Leader Daniel Mendez.  Because she was there he revized the original lesson topic (signs of the second coming :P) a ton to be able to share a little about Joseph Smith and the First Vision and his testimony about the church.  The Spirit was very strong and I was very very happy with that man.  We gave her the Book of Mormon and she said that she would read it, which we were very happy about.  We have an appointment to teach her Tuesday, so I'm really excited about that.

So I'm sure you're wondering why the week was so good, and to be honest, I'm not sure if I know the answer.  I was very very blessed this week.  The Lord blessed me with a love of Chile and a love of the members and a love of the people that I've never had before here on my mission, and I realized that I really want to enjoy every moment that I have here in this beautiful country.  One thing I think I learned was the importance of enjoying your mission to the fullest, and how to do it.  Another thing was a tremendous peace that I've been blessed with.  I think I've finally internalized the truth that the number of baptisms doesn't measure the success of a missionary, and am finally at peace with the fact that as long as I try my best and love God, that I will do good here that I do not even realize.  And even if not much good is done, God will accept my sacrifice, and be proud of what I'm doing.  It seems like obvious stuff, but it took me a very long time to truly be comfortable with the fact that I'm not going to have a lot of baptisms in this area, and that I won't have many my whole mission either.  It took me a while to be at peace with the fact that other elders are having a lot of success right now, and despite our efforts we're really not.  It's a hard thing to do, and I think that peace I feel is a gift of God.  I understand that I can only do my best, be humble, and constantly try to improve the way I work.  But, more than anything, I need to love God.  I learned that the love a missionary has for God is the true measure of success of a missionary.  Also, taking a step back and looking at how much  I've grown and how far I've come has made me realize how much the mission is changing me, even though the time seems to fly by without much happening.  At the start of this week I became really uncomfortable with the fact that my mission, at the end of this change, is going to be a quarter of the way through, and not much has happened.  I think I realized this week how many lives I've touched, and especially how much I've changed.  I love my mission.  I love it so much.  I am so grateful for every moment that I can be here and I'm especially grateful for my mission call to the Chile Rancagua mission.  Yes, Chile might have some of the lowest numbers on this side of the world.  Yes, the Chile Rancagua mission has the lowest numbers in Chile.  But, that doesn't mean that this mission isn't successful, and that doesn't mean I'm not a successful missionary.  I feel a lot of peace in the face of not much success, and a lot of love for the country, and that has made a lot of difference.  This week was actually a big turning point for me, and has changed the way I do a lot of things.  I've also found much more confidence to talk to people and to step out of my comfort zone, as well as in teaching people and testifying.  I'm feeling the Spirit work through me more and I'm feeling the power of the Spirit more when I testify.  All of these things I'm convinced are gifts of God, and especially gifts of the Spirit.  I'm very grateful for this week and how I've changed.

I sadly don't have any more time, because I was planning on bearing my testimony for the first time in a little bit in this letter, but hopefully I'll be able to next week.  I love you all!  Until next week!

Love
Elder Fox

Monday, November 9, 2015

The Fire of Faith

Hello all!

So I suppose you're wondering why I'm writing so late today.

So this week was actually really good!  It had it's moments of absolute terribleness, particularly one day where I really didn't want to exist, but overall this week was actually a dramatic improvement.  I have a lot of confidence that my mission President is a very very inspired man.  He actually wrote to me and told me that these changes this change will make a big difference, even though nothing changed at all.  And he was absolutely right!

First, some funny stories:

So this week I ran into a road sign.  The chileans here are a little short, so I'm actually taller than most of them.  I was walking down the street distracted talking to Elder Hadlock when before I know it I get a speed limit sign to the face.  It was painful, but also so funny that tears were rolling down our faces.

This is a story of last week but I forgot to write about it.  Elder Schley had this really bad habit of saying the word ''literally'' wrong in almost every single sentence.  In district class last week he said that an investigator was ''literally golden'' which made me laugh in my mind quite a bit.  Let's sure hope he's not teaching anyone that's literally golden.

The show spongebob here is called ''bob de spongo'' (translates to Bob of sponge) I've come to find out.  This Sunday when we went to a member's house after church for lunch their little daughter was watching spongebob and she said she was watching Bob of sponge and she had to say it a few times before I understood what she was saying and I was so confused.  I figured that spongebob was his name so they'd just leave it like spongebob, or at least spongobob, but I guess not!

Also, some more Chilean news made me laugh this week.  I saw one headline that said ''Parejas de roncadores no pueden dormir!'' which is ''Partners (girlfriends) of snorers can't sleep!''  I thought that was downright hilarious.  Not only was it obvious, but it was considered newsworthy?  Really?  Really now?  You need to have more crime in your country.

Kidding, kidding.

Also there was another news story about how street protesters were distracting bus drivers and bus drivers were getting really annoyed because they felt that it wasn't safe for them to drive under such distracting conditions.  That's more or less normal, but the funny thing was that a news anchor was interviewing a bus driver while he was driving the bus!  Yes, a bus driver was complaining about being distracted while driving to a news anchor, while he was driving!!  He was talking to the anchor while occasionally looking over to the window to glance to the road.  I thought it was just about the funniest thing I've ever seen.

BTW the reason I'm seeing so much news is that two families that we have lunch with regularly always have the news on, so I always catch bits and pieces.

Another thing that I forgot to talk about last week was the ward halloween party down here!  It was a lot of fun, because Elder Hadlock is black and I'm white we dressed as ''men in black'' and it worked perfectly.  We dressed in black suits and black ties and bought sun glasses for the occasion.  I'll need to send pictures because it was pretty awesome.  Sadly not many people in the ward had seen men in black so they all thought that we were the mafia, but hey that works too.

A quick note to my parents:  If you ever get a friend request on my facebook account from anyone that has a latino name, it's definitely going to be someone that I gave my facebook to so always go ahead and friend them.  There were a few people that asked for my fb this week that's why I say it.

Now to talk about the people!  This week nothing much happened in the way of teaching lessons, so sadly I don't get to give you much of an update on any of our people that we're teaching.  But there were a few developments.  First we taught another small lesson to La Mamá de Marcelo about prophets.  We really want to teach her all of lesson 1 but we keep finding ourselves with not enough time.  What is a blessing is that she's finally healthy enough to be taught again, after about 3 months of hardly ever seeing her.  Also, Cristian has told us that he has completely stopped smoking and drinking, which is no less than a miracle.  He's the awesome investigator that we can hardly ever ever teach because he's never at home, but he really wants to be baptized.  We keep in touch with him by calling him every day however, and in one of these calls he told us that he isn't smoking anymore.  So that's super happy news, we just need to help him get to church.  In less happy news, the new investigator that Elder Hadlock and the zone leader Elder Trancoso found while we were on divisions a few weeks back dropped us.  Apparently he was really amazing and very readily accepted a baptismal date, so we were really sad about it.  Likely he got into some anti material.  When we passed by his house his Mom answered and told us that they were talking and they both agree that they don't really want anything, then kindly invited us to go away and never come back.  It was definitely a little rough, but those kinds of things happen in the mission, and you just have to come up from it and not let it get you down.

Also!  Remember that gringa that I told you about a few weeks ago that we talked to?  The other day Elder Hadlock and I were contacting in a block of apartments and we accidentally knocked on her door, she answered and surprised us by speaking English.  This time though, after talking for a few minutes she asked us what the core of our beliefs were as Mormons.  I wasn't expecting her to ever ask about our religion, even though we're missionaries, so I was pleasantly surprised.  We were able to give her a quick version of The Restoration in English, which was actually a lot of fun.  I felt like Elder Calhoon in The Best Two Years (''Oh sorry, I don't speak Dutch. - Oh well neither do I!'')  The problem was that I don't have the first vision memorized in English so I had to do that part in Spanish, but she grew up learning Spanish and English at the same time because her Mom is Chilean and her Dad is North American so she could still understand me.  She prefers English however because she's spent all her life in the states with only small few month visits to Chile every now and then, so she really wants a Book of Mormon in English.  The problem is, I don't know how to get her one quickly.  I guess we'll see about that.  It's very different teaching a North American, because they're much more sincere and learn a lot quicker, but they also have a ton more doubts.  Especially in the topic of gay marriage, which isn't much of a thing yet here in Chile.  But I hope that we can continue (is that how it's spelled?) teaching her because she is very sincere in her search for the truth.  She was previously Catholic but doesn't agree with a lot of what they do, especially regarding praying to saints.  So we'll see what happens!

SO the real development of the week was an English class that we started up to try to find new investigators.  We've been teaching La'Cote and her family every week but that's kind of been a private tutor type thing, which missionaries don't really do all that often.  We decided to keep doing that because we're also teaching them the gospel, but we decided to also hold an English class in the chapel every Saturday that would be advertized throughout the city.  So this week Elder Hadlock and I had a good time coming up with the curriculum and making flyers and handouts and putting them all over the city.  Here the only really good English teachers are gringos, because the difficult thing about English is the pronounciation of words and the accent, so gringo teachers are the only ones who can really teach it right.  So on the top of the flyer we put ''Free English Classes'' and then right underneath we have ''Taught by gringos.''  Between those two things we figured we'd see a lot of people, and we actually did!  A lot more than we expected.  Usually when Elders start classes up fresh they get 3 or 4 people for the first lesson, but we had 12!  It was awesome.  Elder Hadlock and I had a great time teaching such an unexpectedly large class size, and we got to know all of them personally.  They're all really cool people, and I hope that they all keep coming.  The first lesson went really well, so I think the size of the classes will increase and not decreased.  At the beginning of the class we asked why people came and a few of them said that they wanted to meet and know the Elders a little better because they've always been curious about them, and so we're hoping that we'll be able to become friends with them and eventually teach them.  So, success!  It felt good, especially after last change when just about everything that we did flopped in our face.

There are a few more stories, but I'll have to save them for next week.  So like I said at the beginning of the email, this week was a ton better.  Elder Hadlock and I don't really know what happened to us last change, but whatever it was it wasn't good.  Now we're both eating healthier, exercising better, and doing just about everything a lot better.  We have the excitement of the missionary work back, finally, which is awesome.  So here's to a great change!  We're both super excited for whatever comes.

So, I should probably tell you why I'm writing so late today.  Today both Talca zones held this awesome activity that was so great that the assistants to the President gave us Conti peeps special permission to wake up at 5:00 and travel at 6:00 to Talca to be able to participate, then end our P-day as late as necessary.  The activity was awesome, from Talca the zones took a bus to an awesome garden type thing in the middle of nowhere (it was gorgeous though, I love the Chilean fields and the hills) where we played American football, futbol, and kickball, then had a big barbecue with everyone.  It was a lot of fun.

So, I know that a big thing happened recently in the church, which I actually didn't find out about until today through all of your emails.  I know that my family is as strong in their faith as it gets, so what I have to say here is more intended for other people who may end up reading this outside of my family, especially people my age.  Please, please remember that the Church of Jesus Christ is not a company.  It is not a business, it is not a nonprofit, it is the Church of Jesus Christ.  The Church never has, and never will respond to protests or to the demands and desires of ''revolutionaries'' who feel it their responsibility to modernize, update, or otherwise revise the Church of our God.  If you believe in the Church, if you believe that Joseph Smith was a prophet, you must acknowledge that these men are inspired and chosen servants of God.  There is no way to profess allegiance or belief of the church and then suggest any kind of change to the policy that the Lord's chosen servants have set forth, it just doesn't make any sense.  You're in or you're out, or else you are water that is ''lukewarm'' as Christ says it in one of his many great discourses, or ''salt that has lost it's savor.''

Now with that said, remember that their are answers to every question, and to every doubt.  When we're knocked back, or something happens that we don't understand, we always need to go back to the roots of our testimony.  Those things that the Spirit has communicated dirrectly to our understanding that can't be shaken, and from that basis of faith, any principle can become testimony.  If those roots aren't there, seek to grow them, or else when the days get hotter your faith will wither as a plant without root.  Stay firm, things aren't going to be getting any easier.  I know that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Saints is the true church of God upon the earth, and nothing will ever shake that testimony.

I wanna say more but I gotta go, bye!  I love you all!

Love,
Elder Fox